Life without Merkaba

Many persons have no idea in what world they live, which they have created in the first place by themselves. Their reality is confirmed by the persons around them and as such they take this reality for granted. Cosmic Laws: your outer world is a reflection of your inner world.  They accept the things as they are and move on and do not have any idea what they lack.

They accept situations and concepts of life, which contract there awareness and hold on to contracting emotions. In most cases they live a life very similar to the relationship of their parents. They do not feel the amount of love they could feel and there self esteem is low, because of the problems they have encountered.

Below we will describe 3 areas of contracting of which one or more could be relevant in your specific situation. The contraction refers to the contracted energy sphere you are living in.

At Work
Many persons have to work to earn money. However global business trends, contracting business practises and your position in the company determines the pressure on you. This pressure results in a contracted sphere you life in. Our site www.BoostYourCompany.com has especially been setup to make working environments more healthy and to utilize all capabilities of all employees in order to be more successful.

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Position in the Company
Depending on you role inside a company you have more or less responsibilities and pressure and also different states of mind which correlate with your own mind. These stereo type roles inside companies attract specific type of persons with different lessons in life.  

Sales
Focus on positive side and sell products, services or concepts, which can be sold in current time frame.

When selling, sales persons focus on the positive side of their offering, which they also like to do with their own self esteem. They want to drive in big cars, receive appreciation and be successful. In other words they want to look better then they feel about themselves. 

Purchase
Focus on judging negative side of other company’s proposals, which reflect their own negative mind and their fear to move inside their soul by spiritual practises.

Finance
Focus on how things are and control the in and output of the company. Introvert persons who need to exchange the inner world to the outer world and learn about management of their energies.

Marketing
Focus on positive side, positioning  and the future products, services or concepts of the company.  They need to learn how they should present themselves and which unique talents they have to emphasize.

Human Resources      
Focus on the skills of others and find fitting challenges for all employees. They need to learn not to put themselves on the first spot but really connect with others and their misery and realities.

Consultancy
Focus on the insecurity of others  and  help them by investigating alternatives, setting priorities and making choices. This also reflects their own insecure mind and lost of directions from a deep inner spiritual point of view. Selecting the right spiritual path with all phases is where they are struggling with.      

Production
Focus on physical creation process which assembles components to a final end product. This reflect their own mind which struggles with the creating and existence of their identity, which in most cases is only related to their physical body. Does the body really exist?

Office Management
Focus on service, communication and organizing. 

General Management
Focus on being  responsible for others and maintain security. Vision, strategy and change management are critical and can only be done when employees support this. Their will always be resistance, which need to be transferred. This position reflects the mind which should focus on others, while there is an inner emotional blockage which results in resistance to move into this direction. When self esteem is low it is hard to maintain security although manager seeks for appreciation and appraisal.

At Home
At home is defined as your own house in which you life independent, with your partner and with your kids if you have them. At your home you have created a reality of your own, which leads to pressure on you.

High Mortgage and financial fear
Many couples nowadays need a double income to pay the mortgage or a high rent in order to live the way they want to. This results in pressure to keep on working and have a double income. Also in case of low income and children there is a reason for tight budget controls and financial fear.

Children and organization
Having children is a wonderful event in life. However it results in different role patterns between a couple and if both need or want to keep on working this results in a tight organization schedule and in many cases stress.

The more children the more pressure, which might led to a contracted sphere  you life in.

Contracting Emotions
When living together in one house and yourself, your partner or children cope with Contracting Emotions this makes it more difficult to create and maintain harmony in your environment. In many cases your partner is the equivalent of your father or mother and your children yours or your partner’s. When not realizing this  mirroring effect, it might not be easy not to become angry, jealous, pride, attached or insecure as well. In many cases every emotion is a reaction of your own inner self.

Renovating construction house
The period of renovating or constructing a house is very time and energy consuming. Many relationships do not survive during or just after everything is ready. The house is a reflection of your inner space. In case of a couple or family the house should represent the inner space of more then one person. This is where arguing might start to take place besides the stress of getting everyone and everything on time and in the right sequence.

Illness at home
In  case one person is physical sick this results in a situation, which makes it more difficult to create balance at your home. It does not really matter who is ill, your partner, your self or one of your children. In all cases the person who is ill need to get attention and care. In addition if the physical illness is associated with Contracting Emotions then the mind of the sick person is the source of  strong misbalance at home

Studying besides work
In case one adult is studying besides the life at home or at work this result in a pressure. There will be less time to participate in the work at house and during exam periods this will be extreme. Good results also boosts your self esteem.

Smoking, Drugs, Gambling  and Alcohol
In case of one or more persons smoke, use drugs, use to much alcohol or spend to much money on gambling this disturbs the harmony to a great extend. And in addition it is always a result of a Contracting Emotion why persons use these things. The amount of self love and self esteem is low and these persons do not get the love from others, which hurts to much. They want to escape from this reality..

No inspiration, love and intimacy
In many cases couples stay far to long together,  while there relationship has changed into a mutual understanding of being insecure to become independent or not willing to hurt their kids. Over the years the intimacy has disappeared, because from a mental point of view they emphasise each others faults and bad habits. This is a phase of anger, which always creates distance. As a result of this anger the intimacy becomes a barrier to cross over. For children growing up in such a environment is not good either.   

At Family
At Family is defined as your environment in which you grew up. In most cases your father, mother and brothers and sisters.  At Family your parents have created a reality of which you as a child took everything for granted and in many cases you still do. This reality, experience and cassette tapes as we called have created your self esteem and identity. Later in life you have created your own reality and might dislike the reality in which you grew up. However you need to remember you have perceived this reality from your own state of mind, which could have been contaminated by Contracting Emotions. In other words you have created this reality in your own mind. Your parents perceive it definitely in another way.

No inspiration, love and intimacy
In many cases parents stay far to long together,  while there relationship has changed into a mutual understanding of being insecure to become independent. Over the years the intimacy has disappeared, because from a mental point of view they emphasise each others faults and bad habits. This is a phase of anger, which always creates distance. As a result of this anger the intimacy becomes a barrier to cross over. In case your parents are or have been in such a relationship this might reflect to you how they think about your relationship: not good either. It is like a mirror to them.   

Contracting Emotions

Anger manipulative Parent
An anger parent is anger, because her or his wishes do not become reality and as such sees her of himself as the centre of the universe. As a result they try to control the outer world by means of manipulation. Tactics they use are critics to make you small and easy to be controlled, panic to get love from you, material presents to cover their guilt,  ignore your talents in order not to become to strong, showing their tears in order to show they are a warm personality.  Talking negatively about others – contracting others – is a camouflage technique in order not to move inside their own soul and seek by spiritual means solutions for this mental disease.

Addicted Isolative Parent
Low self esteem and to hard to cope with reality. Drugs, alcohol, gambling and sex is a way to escape from this reality into another.  As a result children feel rejected and their self esteem will be low as well. They also do not like to be identified with their father or mother and as such they will develop a tendency of disliking the sexual mode of the specific parent. Later in live they will have problems to get along with other persons having the same sexual mode. 

Jealous Criticising Parent
You get more attention and appraisal from others then your parent. Your parent will criticise you and will not give you compliments but complaints. Your self esteem will be low and you will feel insecure. In this case your brother of sisters will get more attention and you will develop jealousy yourself as well. When you have settled they might feel you live the live they might have wanted and polarisation gets worse.

Insecure Manipulative Parent
Insecure persons tend so seek control in order to compensate their insecurity. One of the tactics they often use is manipulation. They prevent you from using your talents, create quilt feelings in order to let you do things for them, panic creation in order to let you do things for them as well. 

Blocked Pride Parent
A pride parent will not listen to ideas of his or her children. His or her truth will be the most important one. Parent ignores the inner feeling of his or her children and as such does not respect them. When children do not listen anger might arrive.

Illness at Family
In case one or more parents get ill early in life or when they are old they need care from their children. Between the children pressure comes into existence: who is going to do what and when. It needs organization to arrange everything smoothly. When you parents are old they start already to connect to next life and gradually turn into depended baby’s again. They took care of you when you were small and an inner demand arises to do something in return. Depending on the Contracting Emotions At Family you have a good, moderate or bad relationship with your parents. What ever situation exists always remind what they have done for you when you where young and behave on the three levels as good as you can. In thoughts, in words and in actions.